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Things I wish I knew before: the hindsight slideshow format

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Short answer

A 'things I wish I knew before' slideshow lists five to seven hard-won lessons about one specific milestone, one lesson per slide, written for someone who is about to go through it. It works because 'before X' names the viewer's own situation, and every lesson promises a cost they can avoid.

Slides
6–9 slides
Also called
Also called: What I wish I knew before, Things nobody tells you about, Things I wish someone told me, Lessons I learned the hard way, Advice to my younger self, Wish I knew sooner

The structure, slide by slide

Worked example · 8 slides
  1. 1/8 Hook

    5 things I wish I knew before renovating my kitchen

    Names a milestone the viewer is facing, so the post reads as if it was written for them.

  2. 2/8 Lesson 1 (strongest)

    1. Add a 15% buffer to the budget. Walls hide things you only find once they're open.

    Puts the most valuable lesson first, so slide 2 could work as a cover on its own.

  3. 3/8 Lesson 2

    2. Plan outlets before cabinets. Decide where the toaster and coffee maker live now, not later.

    Gives one specific action with a reason, which is what separates a lesson from a platitude.

  4. 4/8 Lesson 3

    3. Order cabinets first. Everything else waits on them, and lead times can run for weeks.

    Adds a timing lesson only someone who has been through it would know.

  5. 5/8 Lesson 4

    4. Matte black hardware shows every fingerprint. Touch a sample before you commit.

    A small, concrete regret keeps the pace quick and is easy to screenshot.

  6. 6/8 Lesson 5

    5. Layout beats finishes. Fix the walk between fridge, sink and stove before you pick a single tile.

    Ends the list on a big-picture lesson, so the last item lands as hard as the first.

  7. 7/8 Takeaway

    If you remember one thing: plan the boring parts first. The pretty parts are easy to change.

    Compresses the whole post into one line people can repeat or save.

  8. 8/8 CTA

    Renovating soon? Comment which room and I'll tell you the one thing to plan first.

    Invites people at the same milestone to identify themselves, which starts conversations with likely customers.

Why it works

  • 'Before X' names the viewer's situation. People remember information better when it is encoded in reference to themselves, known as the self-reference effect (Rogers et al., 1977; reviewed in Serbun et al., 2011).
  • Every lesson implies a loss avoided. Bad events and bad information carry more weight and get processed more thoroughly than good ones (Baumeister et al., 2001), so 'I wish I knew' pulls harder than 'here are some tips.'
  • The viewer knows just enough to be curious. Curiosity comes from a noticed gap in knowledge (Loewenstein, 1994). Someone about to start X knows the milestone but not the lessons, which is exactly that gap.
  • Hindsight is credibility without bragging. The framing proves you have been through it, and sources perceived as credible create stronger beliefs and persuade more (Debunking Handbook 2020).
  • Slide 2 gets a second chance. Instagram head Adam Mosseri said in 2024 that a carousel someone sees but doesn't swipe can show up again, starting on its second slide (reported by RouteNote). Your strongest lesson belongs there.
  • It is a checklist for a future moment. People about to go through X have a reason to save it and come back.

Best for

  • Home services and renovation
  • Founders, ecommerce and app makers
  • Real estate and moving
  • Wedding and event vendors
  • Pets, parenting and new-owner products
  • Education, careers and study abroad
  • Coaches and consultants

Avoid

  • Generic lessons like 'be consistent' or 'trust the process'. Every lesson needs a specific action and a reason.
  • Burying the best lesson at the end. Put it on slide 2, where every viewer who swipes once will see it.
  • Lists longer than about 7. Past that, the post feels like homework. Split it into two posts.
  • Writing about your journey when your audience is customers. If you sell to them, make X their milestone.
  • Turning every lesson into a pitch. One mention of what you offer, on the last slide, is enough.
  • Lessons you didn't actually learn. Borrowed advice in a first-person frame is easy to spot and erodes trust.

Hooks for this format

  • Things I wish I knew before [milestone]
  • [Number] things nobody tells you before [milestone]
  • What I wish someone told me before I [action]
  • Things I wish every client knew before [milestone]
  • Before you [action], read this
  • If you're about to [action], save this
  • Things I learned the hard way as a first-time [role]
  • I've [done X] [N] times. Here's what I wish I knew the first time.
  • Things I'd tell myself on day one of [journey]
  • Things I wish I knew before spending money on [category]
  • The [niche] lessons that cost me the most
  • [Milestone] this year? Here's what I'd do differently.

More in the hook library.

A “things I wish I knew before” slideshow lists hard-won lessons about one specific milestone, one lesson per slide. The hook names the milestone. Five to seven slides each give a lesson with a reason, and the close invites people facing the same thing to comment.

It is hindsight, packaged for someone who doesn’t have it yet.

What is a “things I wish I knew” post?

It is a numbered list of lessons framed as advice to your past self. The first slide names the milestone, like starting a business, getting a puppy or renovating a kitchen. Each slide after that gives one thing you learned the hard way.

Slideshow guides list it as a standard template: “5 things I wish I knew before [starting X],” one lesson per slide (OpenClip). It is a close cousin of the mistakes listicle, but it faces the other way.

A mistakes post looks at what the viewer is doing wrong now. A “wish I knew” post hands them the knowledge before they need it.

What should X be?

The biggest decision is the milestone. Most creators pick their own journey: “before starting my business.” That works when your audience is people one step behind you, like other founders.

If you sell to customers, pick their milestone instead. A contractor writes “before renovating your kitchen,” a dog trainer “before getting a puppy,” a mover “before moving to Denver.” The post then reaches people right before they buy, and your experience is the proof.

Keep X specific. “Before starting out” is too vague for anyone to feel it is about them.

How to write lessons that don’t sound generic

Every lesson needs three parts: what you learned, what to do, and why.

  • Generic: “Plan your budget carefully.”
  • Specific: “Add a 15% buffer to the budget. Walls hide things you only find once they’re open.”

Order matters too. Put your strongest lesson on slide 2, right after the hook.

In a 2024 tip video, Instagram head Adam Mosseri said a carousel someone sees but doesn’t swipe can show up again, starting on its second slide (RouteNote). Slide 2 is your second cover, so save your second-best lesson for the end.

Second worked example: an app founder

The example slides on this page are written for a renovation business speaking to future clients. Here is the founder-journey version for someone building an app in public.

  1. Hook: “Things I wish I knew before launching my first app”
  2. Lesson 1: “1. Nobody finds your app by accident. Plan how people will hear about it before you write code.”
  3. Lesson 2: “2. Charge from day one. Free users tell you what they like. Paying users tell you what they need.”
  4. Lesson 3: “3. Your first screen sells harder than your store listing. I polished the wrong one for months.”
  5. Lesson 4: “4. Submit for review early. Never announce a launch date for a build that isn’t approved.”
  6. Lesson 5: “5. Talk to 20 users before adding a feature. I built three features nobody opened.”
  7. Takeaway: “If I started over: distribution first, features second.”
  8. CTA: “Building something? Comment what it does and I’ll tell you where I’d post it first.”

Every lesson has a number, an action and a reason. The strongest one, distribution, comes first and comes back in the takeaway.

Variations

  • Customer milestone. “Things I wish every client knew before…” This is the version most businesses should use.
  • Founder journey. “Things I wish I knew before starting my business.” It builds an audience of peers and works well for app makers and creators.
  • Things nobody tells you. The same list, framed as insider knowledge rather than regret.
  • Day-one letter. “What I’d tell myself on day one,” written as a short note across the slides.
  • Year 1 vs year 5. Pair each early belief with what you know now. It borrows from the before and after format.
  • The story behind one lesson. Expand a single lesson into a full storytime, then link back to the list.

If a lesson starts with “everyone says…”, it may work better as a myth vs fact slide.

How to adapt it with your own photos

Pair each lesson with a real photo from that time: the half-demolished kitchen, the first prototype, the first order on your table. Old, imperfect photos show you have actually been there, which is the whole premise. Stock photos undercut it.

If you don’t have a photo for a lesson, use a close-up that supports it. Think of the fingerprint-covered handle, the outlet in the wrong place or the empty analytics screen. Keep the text in one place on every slide so viewers can read quickly.

If you have found a “wish I knew” post that fits your niche, TokCloner can rebuild its structure for your business. It keeps the hook, the lesson slides, the takeaway and the CTA, and rewrites them for your business profile. Put your project photos in a media library folder and mention it with @folder in your instructions; library images cost 0 credits.

Slides export as 1080×1920 PNGs that you post yourself, and there is no free plan. Read every lesson before posting and make sure it is one you actually learned. For more first lines, browse the hook library or start from a TikTok slideshow template.

Frequently asked questions

What is a 'things I wish I knew' post?

It is a slideshow or carousel that lists lessons you learned the hard way about one milestone, one lesson per slide. It is written for someone who is about to go through the same thing.

How many lessons should I include?

Five to seven. Five fits in eight slides with a hook, a takeaway and a question. If you have more, save them for a part 2.

How is it different from a mistakes listicle?

A mistakes listicle points at what the viewer is doing wrong right now. A 'things I wish I knew' post hands knowledge to someone who hasn't started yet, so it suits beginners and people about to buy.

Can a business use this format if the founder isn't the story?

Yes. Write it for your customer's milestone, like 'things I wish every client knew before renovating,' and draw the lessons from what you have seen across many jobs.

Where should the best lesson go?

On slide 2, right after the hook. Viewers who swipe once see it, and on Instagram a carousel people didn't swipe can come back starting on slide 2. Put your second-best lesson last.

What should X be in 'things I wish I knew before X'?

A specific milestone with a clear before and after, like renovating a kitchen, launching an app or getting a puppy. 'Before starting out' is too vague to make anyone feel it is about them.

Sources

  1. OpenClip: 50+ TikTok slideshow ideas that actually work
  2. Serbun, Shih and Gutchess (2011), Memory for details with self-referencing, Memory (PMC)
  3. Baumeister et al. (2001), Bad Is Stronger Than Good, Review of General Psychology (University of Minnesota record)
  4. Loewenstein (1994), The psychology of curiosity: A review and reinterpretation, Psychological Bulletin (abstract)
  5. Lewandowsky, Cook, Ecker et al. (2020), The Debunking Handbook 2020 (PDF)
  6. RouteNote: Instagram carousels perform better than single photos, according to the head of Instagram (October 2024)